25 Questions to Ask Potential Adoptive Parents in Pennsylvania
Placing your baby for adoption is a huge decision, and you deserve to feel confident about the family you choose.
One of the best ways to do that is by asking questions. Your adoption specialist can help schedule a phone call, video call or in-person meeting with the prospective adoptive family.
Below, we’ve compiled a list of questions to ask adoptive parents. Whether you’re just beginning to browse profiles or preparing to meet a couple you like, these questions can help you take the next step
If you’d like support through this process, call 1-800-ADOPTION or fill out our form to talk with an adoption specialist. You can also browse profiles of waiting families online.
Why It’s Important to Ask Questions as an Expectant Parent
You get to control over every aspect of your adoption journey, including choosing the right family. These are the people who will love and guide your child as they grow up.
When you meet with the family and ask questions, you start to see what life might look like for your child. You can picture the family’s daily routines, values and hopes for the future. That picture can help you feel sure you’re making the best possible decision.
25 Questions to Ask Prospective Adoptive Parents
Are you wondering, "What should I talk about with the family I choose?" These questions to ask potential adoptive parents when adopting privately can guide your conversation.
Lifestyle
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What does a typical day look like in your home?
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How are you preparing for this transition?
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What will you do for fun as a family?
Home Environment
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What is your home like?
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Do you have pets?
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What are your neighborhood and community like?
Parenting Style
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How do you plan to raise a child?
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What values are most important to you?
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How do you handle conflict and discipline?
Support System
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How does your extended family feel about adoption?
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How often do you see or talk to relatives?
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Will the child have cousins, grandparents, or other close family relationships?
Faith
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Do you practice a religion or spiritual belief?
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How will you teach your child about faith?
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How do your beliefs influence your daily life and parenting decisions?
Culture
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What cultural traditions are important in your family?
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How will you consider cultural differences?
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How do you plan to help your child understand and appreciate their cultural background?
Education
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What kind of schools are nearby?
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What are your hopes for your child’s education?
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Do you have plans to start a college fund?
Open Adoption
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Why did you choose adoption?
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What are your thoughts on open adoption contact frequency?
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What are your hopes for your relationship with me?
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How do you plan to talk about adoption with the child?
What if I Feel Unsure About the Family?
That’s okay. Just because you started getting to know a family doesn’t mean you have to move forward with them. You can change your mind at any point before you legally sign your adoption paperwork.
Remember, you shouldn't feel guilty for wanting the best for your child. This is a lifelong decision, and you deserve to feel 100% sure about the family you choose. If something doesn’t feel right, your adoption specialist can help you find other families.
How American Adoptions Supports Expectant Parents
You should be able to find the perfect family for your child. That’s why American Adoptions offers more families to choose from than other agencies. We’ll help you get to know them so that you can decide if they’re the right fit.
From your first call to post-placement, we make sure you have everything you need: someone to talk to, questions answered and a clear next step.
You can browse profiles of waiting families online or visit one of our offices in Pennsylvania.
Lewistown
3 W. Monument Square, Suite 210
1-800-ADOPTION
Philadelphia
1 International Plaza, Suite 550
1-800-ADOPTION
Pittsburgh
1-800-ADOPTION
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